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Today is my birthday, and as I celebrate another trip around the sun, I’ve been reflecting on the countless lessons life has taught me. From the deepest heartaches to the most glittery triumphs, here are 60 lessons I’ve learned so far – with a few bonus ones sprinkled in because, well, why not? Life is too short not to add a little extra sparkle.

59 Life Lessons I’ve Learned:

1. Love isn’t always simple, but it’s always worth it.
2. Grief doesn’t go away; it transforms. You learn to weave it into the fabric of your life.
3. A wagging tail can remind you that joy often comes in the simplest moments and that love is unconditional.
4. Kindness is the quietest revolution, but the most powerful one.
5. Pink isn’t just a color; it’s an attitude.
6. You can’t pour from an empty cup, so fill it with what fuels your soul.
7. Glitter isn’t just an accessory; it’s a way of life.
8. The best ideas often begin with a whisper of possibility.
9. Showing up for the people you love is the ultimate act of courage.
10. Life’s too short not to create your own moments of magic.
11. Outgrowing things doesn’t mean failure; it’s a sign of growth.
12. The art of saying no is the art of protecting your peace.
13. Often, a hug speaks volumes and no words are needed.
14. Dancing in the kitchen is sometimes better than a  grand celebration.
15. Losing someone reshapes you, but their love stays alive in your heart forever.
16. There’s nothing quite like getting lost in the pages of a good book.
17. Keep showing up. Consistency is underrated but transformative.
18. Sunrises are whispers from the universe, reminding you to begin again.
19. Hope isn’t just a mindset; it’s a daily practice.
20. Lead with joy. It’s infectious in the best way.
21. The mirror reflects your only competition. Be better than you were yesterday.
22. A great joke or a belly laugh can feel like a tiny miracle.
23. Sometimes, the best therapy is a run (or walk) in fresh air.
24. Heartbreak is life’s way of reshaping your heart for something bigger.
25. Gratitude makes even the smallest moments bigger.
26. Helping others lights a fire within you.
27. Tears can be soul-cleansing.
28. Growth often comes from the messiest chapters of life.
29. Fear isn’t an enemy; it’s an indicator of something worth pursuing.
30. Music has the power to mend what words cannot.
31. Advocating for what’s right is rarely easy, but it’s always worthwhile.
32. Celebrate the small victories; they’re the foundation of success.
33. A hot cup of tea can soothe both body and soul.
34. Hard days will come, but so will better ones. Hold on.
35. Community is the backbone of a life well-lived. Find yours.
36. A tutu isn’t just an outfit; it’s an unapologetic declaration of joy.
37. Magic is hidden in the smallest, quietest moments. Seek it out.
38. You can’t fix everything, but you can always show up.
39. Forgiveness and making amends liberates you more than anyone else.
40. A handwritten note can change someone’s day. Write them often.
41. Being present is the greatest gift you can offer.
42. Leap before you’re ready; trust the net will appear.
43. Listen with your whole heart; it’s the key to connection.
44. Reinvention isn’t a luxury; it’s a necessity.
45. Love and loss are intertwined. Embrace both.
46. Rewrite your story as often as you need to. You hold the pen.
47. A candlelit evening at home can be as magical as a night out.
48. Sometimes, the best journeys are the ones you take with music as your only guide.
49. The most meaningful work often happens in silence.
50. Let people know they matter; never leave it unsaid.
51. Love…just love. Let love lead. 
52. A touch of glitter makes everything feel more festive.
53. Surround yourself with those who fan your flames, not extinguish them.
54. Life’s messy, beautiful, and worth every second.
55. There’s a unique magic in the rhythm of waves; spending time near the water soothes the mind, heals the soul, and reminds us of life’s endless ebb and flow.
56. The most extraordinary moments are often wrapped in ordinary days.
57. Joy is an act of rebellion. Choose it every day.
58. Resume virtues may build a career, but eulogy virtues—kindness, integrity, love, and generosity—are what truly create a meaningful and unforgettable life.
59. Love is love is love is love is love, infinite and transformative; it has the power to heal, uplift, empower, inspire, and remind us of the beauty and light within us all.
    
    Here’s to another year of learning, loving, and living life with all the sparkle, grief, laughter, and tutus it has to offer. Thanks for being part of my journey. Now, let’s celebrate!
    
    Peace,
    #tutulady
    #forwardisapace