Confidence

Day 18 of 30 
Confidence
This photo (and TBH all photos of me) is hard for my to look at as I am hyper critical of myself. I usually see the flaws first but it is getting easier for me to see my strengths…. those parts of me I love. 
Over the years, I lost my way…I lost myself. It was a slow process over time.  I did not really even notice that I allowed others to abuse and deplete me.  When I did finally realize what happening, I was a mere shell of myself. 
Right then and there,  I made a promise to myself that I would put this girl back together again better than before. 
Rebuilding is not an easy process nor is it static but it is sooo worth it! 
Never again will I allow anyone to steal my Sparkle!
 I am stronger and more confident than ever!
Peace
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#forwardisapace 

Parks

Day 6 of 30
City parks. City benches. These spaces are a gift to the residents of the city. Today the parks were full. Kids playing catch, socially distanced groups of ladies chatting, seniors sitting on the benches watching people go by, dogs playing fetch….it was such a sweet sight. Parks are a space that are often forgotten while we are rushing to get it all done or get from one place to another. Today I was reminded of a simpler time and for that I am grateful.
Peace
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#forwardisapace

Dad

Day 4 of 30
Dad.
My very first guy. 83 years young today. Still strutting down the sidewalk on his own. 
The man who taught me to appreciate the weight of a good book in your hands, an effective argument, fine wine, great music and a meal cooked with love. He is a straight shooter who tells it like it is.  He pulls no punches and is often abrasive. 
My dad has educated me on the finer (read:most important) things in life. 
I appreciate his unfailing and copious tough love. I am grateful that he is in my corner and love him so very much. 
Peace
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#forwardisapace

Departed

Day 2 of 30
The departed.
I am grateful for those who have gone before me…clearing a path, teaching me lessons to last a lifetime and saving space for me in the afterlife.
Remember all those who have passed away as it is All Souls’ day today.
Peace
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#forwardisapace